(Revised) “If You’ve Ever Had a Coach Play Favorites, You Know Exactly How This Feels”
photo by Dreamstime If you have ever played a sport, you have probably heard the same thing over and over again, work hard, and you will be rewarded. Practice harder. Put in more effort. Earn your spot. But what happens when that is not true? What happens when your coach already has favorites, and no matter what you do, you are stuck on the sidelines? Some people argue that coaches are not playing favorites and are simply choosing the best players to help the team win. Others believe favoritism can motivate athletes to work even harder. When players feel like things are unfair, the opposite usually happens. They lose motivation. Favoritism is something many athletes deal with, even if they do not always talk about it. It is frustrating, unfair, and can completely ruin the experience of playing a sport. Favoritism does not just affect playing time; it affects confidence, motivation, and the overall chemistry of a team. Coaches who ...